Bring it on imaginary pitchfork gang in my mind! We doing this!
In all seriousness — a lot of people out there are pretending to be trans because they think it makes them more interesting. Transness has been colonized.
Something pressing needs to get out of the way; science can’t be trusted. There’s no way to parse the bullshit. It’s lost. Moving on.
So, now that we know all that matters is my opinion. Let’s get on with it.
FAKE TRANS PEOPLE SUCK ASS
Thems just my fee fees. We’ll dig deeper though. I suspect, as per usual, when we get to those hidden layers behind my feelings, I will be 100% correct about near-almost everything.
Transmed - Is a term for people entrenched to the idea that transness is based entirely on one having physically transitioned. That is entirely incorrect. Beyond the bizarrely faulty assumption of their own projection to feel validated, and the lies they tell about passing have anything to do with that validity, they are usually pretty hateful people who are cutting down others from a place of callousness. They demand that transness be medicalized into a pathology — which is the backwards old way of looking at things, created by men (predominantly) who see transness a sexual deviancy based off their own disgusting projections — because that’s how they have found their affirmation.
That’s all really stupid.
There’s something very real that gets lumped in with this philosophy — most incorrectly. Transness is in right now - there is a fad in it which create waves of challenge and incorrectness.
People do this all the time. They remake themselves for everyone else, to get what they want, manipulating the truth of who they are for some false goal. To see people who do this with my identity — is insulting. I can’t tell anyone they’re not who they’ve chosen to see themselves as, but my heart knows as one who’s lived with this my whole life. There are people who take it on for fun, and that’s maddening as someone who’s suffered for it. They come from privilege, and they are invading spaces that aren’t theirs.
Still, they are the symptom, culture is broken — you can’t take people’s choices away from them — the only moral way to operate in terms of access to trans medical care is informed consent. I would have never transitioned without it, because the other route is proving to cis-male hierarchy that you fit their definition.
The fucked-up thing is — I do. I’ve lived with crippling body dysphoria or dysmorphia — whatever — my whole fucking life. Needing to prove that to someone who has no idea what’s it like, in a society that is completely uniformed and confused about gender and sexuality as a whole; more insulting thing than I would ever choose to stomach.
In England — they make trans people ‘live as their preferred gender’ for extended periods of time to prove them worthy of the medicine they seek. That’s brutal and torturous. I never would have done that either. The challenges of transitioning — especially as an adult — are complicated as fuck and for every trans person to navigate in their own way. There is no right answer.
There are many new medicine’s available to trans people, more than any era before, and so the choices in how to pursue that are nearly endless. This is the most complicated shit ever, because the medical system is broken and corrupted for profit. That shit’s busted.
Medical autonomy is a right. People need to stop being hypocrites on this based on the issue and the political alignment it’s been assigned by our oligarchs that would have us fighting each other from their penthouses.
You can’t have it both ways y’all.
Regressive fuckers: Do you want to not take those shots without losing your job — which are garbage as-fuck — or would like to strip trans people the right for medical care?
Soapbox Try-Hards: Stop being fucking idiots. You know the medical system is broken y’all. You know there have never been MRNA vaccines before. I almost died taking a Johnson and Johnson shot to not do that shit — because I knew better in my fucking heart. I wouldn’t have done that but I had to for keeping my job. It was awful, and it felt like one of the biggest betrayals of something I knew was wrong that I’ve ever done. We have no idea what that’s going to do to people in time from this bullshit cooked up with intentions we are truly unaware of. It smells funny, and we know it. There are a lot of bad complications which get politicized and buried. The way people are shamed for speaking up from their heart about this is horrid. Nothing in our recent time — propaganda-wise — is more blatantly obvious to everyone but this. Yet, y’all lie.
Please do realize I understand I’ve just named our two majors political party’s constituents perfectly. I’m keeping those both.
AND SO, TO THE THANG
Angry conservative people are mad as fuck because they see the fad we won’t admit. They’re wrong to try and stop people seeking medical care — entirely — and transmed people need to shut the fuck up and take their meds. They blame people exploring themselves for this newfound resistance they face within their ‘cozy’ place of patriarchal hierarchy’s underbelly. Perhaps, they deserve a bit of a quiet reckoning for that place they’ve accepted. All that means is that they can eat a bag of dicks about this and enjoy watching their opinions mean nothing.
All we can do is help people discover who they are in a box of freedom.
Children should be raised without gender until they decide — if they do. That is the answer to the problem.
People don’t seem to know or believe this, but children up until puberty — of both sexes — have completely equal abilities and limitations, holistically. There are always exceptions. Those are the things which make this need for zero generalization borne into the mind of a child onto what they may be the only moral thing to do.
Gender will always exist. It will shift. There will be many expressions and ways of seeing it, but the truth is we need to let it move and flow without control, and we have to destroy every vestige of programing from patriarchal hierarchies which manifest into the minds of children regarding identity.
How this manifests in reality at the moment, is troubling because we are in a place of enormous transformation, and that means lines get crossed which shouldn’t — as well as boundaries being put up which are awful. It will be a feeling out process, and there won’t be a single step that can be taken in rightness until the foundations we build upon have crumbled.
This shit needs to be re-built from the ground up. Where it needs to start is the great, continually unseen horror of America. We live on a burial ground of shame. We are on stolen land.
Every horror we perpetrate on each other is because of how we’ve never dealt with the fact our founders were monsters. They destroyed a people — massacres and rapes and burning of villages. Children killed. It was everywhere. Manifest Destiny.
America is broken, we need to blow it the fuck up and stop fighting each other for being stupid.
Trans people are valid no matter. My feelings are just that — feelings — but letting them out sure got me somewhere profound, didn’t it.
