Queerness Had Been Colonized by Cis Women
on how cisgendered women take away queer space from trans women
Cisgendered women can and have been colonizers. Their guilt through complicity with men is something that pales the truth. Powerful biological women have and always will hold enormous swaths of social power. They wield it ruthlessly and with means of manipulation from deep-seated habit and continued need amongst a society that forces them to navigate its own untruths.
I believe the terms biological woman and cisgendered woman are synonymous, and feel like changing English meaning for pedantically earned feeling-cushion is wrong. Trans women oft say they are biological women because they are both biological, and a woman as well. There is a difference when it’s a conjunction of two words—in my opinion—and I also reject that anyone else’s sensitivity should project upon my expressing of truth. That doesn’t mean I don’t learn to understand more wholly. It means I’m not going to lie with the herd, and you just have to get over it.
Lesbian space is not comfortable as a trans lesbian woman. It feels overrun by my girl, Pretty Karen.
Pretty Karen is married to a dude with money and probably has a grown kid or two. She’s a gorgeous and become woman. She’s a TERF either openly, right beneath the surface, or suppressed while professing superficial statements of support that are easy to read through by their lack of earnest energy.
The cognitive dissonance from ‘‘lower-class” cis lesbians, non-binary folks in bio-women bodies, hidden trans men, trans boys included in lesbian space, and the trans women who accept place as demeaningly second-class citizens beside comes from how gorgeous Pretty Karen is. It comes from how much everyone wants a vacation too and like the idea of playing with their preferable genitalia.
Meanwhile—true leaders of Queer culture are sitting lost because they are also Christian, or honest, or fearless, or not a superficial whore, or a trans woman. These people all trigger Karen.
Trans women should be leaders and own lesbian spaces just as much as cis lesbians. Trans men should cede place within some definitions to be respectful. Don’t call it being lesbian if you’re a trans boy and a cis woman together while owning both definitions simultaneously—that’s turning gender into sexuality while exploiting privilege and conflating it all confusingly; its gross—that’s making it a genital cult and pushing well-meaning conservatives to reject ‘the nonsense’ outright. At least, don’t do it in community where that invalidates others and perpetuates itself from ideology made into subconscious actions unwitnessed which fail to include trans women everywhere.
Realize that the inclusion of trans men in lesbian spaces is about that one thing most of all—the gash.
It’s also about the abundance of Pretty Karen’s influence. She was used to manipulating her rich man who bought her hot tub, so she twisted queer folks while deciding to take queer space her own. It was thriving and she was bored and out of the spotlight for a moment.
Cis women turn poly and cuckold their loving husbands with young lesbians then project their trans bigotry everywhere while absorbing community leadership—playing victim for their plainly seen and widely accepted bisexuality—torching everyone with manipulation—while they see trans men as confused women deep down and lie for a taste.
People laugh beside Pretty Karen and ignore the bigotry coming through—even though they don’t ultimately believe in it—because Karen is pretty apparently, even when they openly belittle trans women or men in quiet moments.
I see you traitors standing beside them. How dare you.
For trans women to be seen as the colonizers is the ultimate insult. I’m being male’ified when that happens and I’m the most vulnerable part of the queer community apart from my black sisters, and trans women all take beatings from our peers on behalf of Pretty Karen-devils. Meanwhile, I’m a woman’s woman. I’m a goddess in heart and soul. I’m seen as the one who is purporting themself to belong in a space they ‘aren’t really wanted.’
Listen my queer friends…
There is plenty of pussy to go around. Don’t fuck TERFs and give them space in lesbian community because they are rich and hot, then not include trans women, because then you are being a privilege wilding, vagina-sex-addicted colonizer too who is sexualizing a community about so much more. Hold spaces that aren’t always just about scoring snatch or you’re predators.
Trans men playing lesbian— Stop hiding and calling it erasure. Stop staying silent. Be who you are and queer space will not be as cozy to you but then we can change it together.
Trans women playing along with Karen— Honey…
Progressive minded lesbians who’ve been manipulated by Karen—Forgive yourself and burn this hypocrite to the ground with me.
Pretty Karen herself— Your privilege is showing, bitch, and I’m coming for my space. Repent or face a reckoning.
Trans women who have no space for community, or love, and are used as objects of sex for the cult’s few who want to ‘ride a d for a minute’ then get tossed away because those would rather have a ‘real relationship’ with a vagina— We’ll get there. These bitches are going to pay. Don’t let the colonizers gaslight you any longer. This is our space.
Speaking from your chest is a human trait.